Draw them in with intrigue and mystery.Parties already have the pretext of being places to pick people up, and I wanted to be a good host, so my initial hesitation was already lowered. Finn had no real need to do this because he was at my party because a friend of a friend brought him. This will get them thinking of all the possibilities between you two. For example, brush your hand against theirs, make a slightly suggestive comment. From here, merely suggest, very subtly, that your relationship could become more sexual. A stranger who walks right up to you and starts flirting is off-putting and suspicious, but someone who you see at the same parties, or someone who dresses spectacularly, or someone who has just rescued a damsel in distress, or someone who is a friend who is attentive and who listens, is someone who has broken down the initial wall of mistrust that applies to all strangers. The goal here is to lower their guard and trust you. Generally, it’s better to haunt the periphery of their vision and imagination first than it is to go directly up to them and flirt. Approach them indirectly to undo their human suspicion.I guess my isolation made me more susceptible to him. I am also new to the city, so I don’t have very many friends here yet. I think Finn seduced me so well because I have a very theatrical imagination which gives intense opportunity to anyone who can captivate it by presenting themselves as a fantasy. Good victims stir something within you as well – perhaps it’s a character trait that you want, or maybe you look up to them. They usually are unhappy or lonely or isolated in some manner. A successful victim is unlikely to be super busy (for they have no time for eros) or completely content (for they have no use for eros). The first step is to choose the right victim! Find someone who is susceptible to your seductions – just as in sales, you find people who want to buy.When reading through seductive process, I noticed that there was a lot of repetition between chapters.

In the second, he describes the 24 steps of the seductive process. In the first, he describes the eight different seductive archetypes. The Art of Seduction has two parts, broadly speaking. So below, I’ll first summarize the book, and then I’ll give my review of it (spoiler: it’s not positive).

I set out to read The Art of Seduction because I wanted to avoid ever being in a similar situation again – one where I’ve lost complete control over my thoughts and desires. While my infatuation with him took two weeks and a lot of journalling to get over, he still lives rent-free in my mind. I had the unfortunate pleasure of being seduced for the first time in my life by someone a month ago called Finn. Seduction is a skillset that is surprisingly legal.

The art of seduction robert